There's something I've noticed after six years of college ministry: when it comes to romance, young professionals (those who have graduated college) need different advice than teenagers. 

I often used the analogy of an accelerator and a brake.  I'll explain.

I'm constantly trying to put the "brakes" on teenagers.  Seems they are eager to jump into relationships without considering the long-term consequences (see also: what is the right age for a relationship?).  I encourage them to slow down and think about their decisions. 

On the other hand, I encourage young professionals to use the "accelerator"--to takes some practical steps in finding a spouse.  Once you've graduated college, it is easy to get into a rut: work, eat, sleep, and never meet anyone new.  I've met plenty of singles who haven't been on a date in over a year.

Ironically, both groups resist the needed adjustment.  Teenagers insist that these temporary, immature relationships give them experience and inspiration.  Young professionals insist they are too busy to have a social life.

What do you think?  Is it time for you to use the accelerator?

Note:
I apologize to those of you whose comments have been deleted.  I have moved this blog around and lost some of the comments in the process (long story).